当钢琴王子郎朗、李云迪征服世界乐坛时，他们同时也征服了众多中国年轻家长的心灵。当代的大多数中国家长其实也是音乐门外汉，他们对音乐的了解更多的是从一些流行歌曲开始的。那么，究竟怎样才能在普通家庭里，实现“音乐之声”的梦想?中华女子学院学前系艺术教研室主任王丹解答了与幼儿学钢琴有关的一些重要问题。

When piano princes lang lang and li yundi conquered the world of music, they also conquered the hearts of many young Chinese parents. Most contemporary Chinese parents are actually laymen of music. They know more about music from some pop songs. So, how on earth can we realize the dream of "music sound" in ordinary families? Wang Dan, director of the art teaching and research office of the preschool department of China women's university, answered some important questions related to children's learning of piano.

手小的孩子也能弹好钢琴。因为孩子正在成长期，小手会慢慢长大。

“我认识一个学钢琴的孩子，个子很小，手也很小，但是这并没有影响她练习钢琴，反而手的灵活性更突出，力度也很好，甚至可以弹肖邦的音乐会曲目，后来终于考上了音乐学院，毕业后去了国外深造。”王丹说。

"I know a child who studies piano, she is very small and has very small hands, but this does not affect her piano practice. On the contrary, her hands are more flexible and her strength is very good. She can even play Chopin's concert pieces."said Wang Dan.

如果孩子在练习中弹错了音，明智的家长不应该当场训斥孩子，而要心平气和地跟孩子讲。父母要不断地激励孩子练习的欲望。假设孩子一弹错就被大人打断，他们的注意力就会从乐曲转移到父母的斥责上。由于生怕弹错，他们就会更小心翼翼地弹琴，这样就会影响音乐感受。

If a child plays a wrong note in practice, a wise parent should not reprimand the child on the spot, but speak calmly to the child. Parents should constantly stimulate their children's desire to practice.If children are interrupted when they make a mistake, their attention shifts from the music to the parents' scolding. For fear of making a mistake, they will play the piano more carefully, which will affect the feeling of music.

在嘈杂的环境中，绝对产生不了安静的孩子。音乐原本是带给人们宁静清澈的心灵，所以孩子在弹奏钢琴时，声量不宜太大，也不要没有节奏地乱弹琴。要让孩子知道，坐在钢琴前要安静，钢琴是优美的乐器。而且，在弹奏钢琴时也要注意，并不是声音越大越好，而是有一定控制的，自然而放松地弹奏。

There is absolutely no quiet child in a noisy environment. Music is originally to bring people a quiet and clear mind, so when children play the piano, the volume should not be too loud, also do not strum without rhythm. Let the child know, sitting in front of the piano to be quiet, the piano is a beautiful instrument. Also, when playing the piano, it is important to note that the louder the better, but a certain amount of control, natural and relaxed playing.

最初，父母决定让孩子学钢琴，都是希望孩子多一些对美好事物的体验。但是时间一长，不少家长就会忘了自己的初衷，而是觉得孩子应该要参加一些比赛。那些急于把孩子推上顶峰的家长，如果有机会冷静地重新思考一下，回头看看学琴路上孩子是怎样走过来的，就很容易了解由于错误的引导，导致孩子失去了人生真正应该习得的宝贵经验。

At first, parents decided to let their children learn the piano, all in the hope is that their children will experience more beautiful things. But after a long time, many parents will forget their original intention and think that their children should participate in some competitions. Parents who are eager to push their children to the top, if they have the opportunity to calmly rethink and look back at how their children have come along in the process of learning to play the piano, will easily understand that due to the wrong guidance, their children have lost the valuable experience they should really learn in life.